“Various sex techniques are important but they don’t mean much without a deep understanding of what makes your woman turned on.”
– Anonymous
- UNDERSTAND YOUR WOMAN
Many
men today don’t take time to figure what it is that their ladies really
want. They assume sex is like a pair of socks or face cap or all such
items that have the ‘one size fits all’ tag. Wrong! For you to score
those awesome points in bed, you need to know your lady in and out. Take
time to ask her about things that turn her on and find fun ways to make
these things come alive.
There are different strokes for
different folks. Some ladies get turned on by listening to Rock Music,
others get turned on by having mild liquor, chocolate and stuff. Some
others are turned on by beards and facial hair, others by the smell of
male cologne and bla bla. The onus is on you to discover her deepest
fantasies and go right on to make those happen.
- ORAL SEX IS MAGICAL
Men
should master the act of giving their women a proper good sexual
feeling by giving ‘the head’. Bite gently, lick softly, and penetrate
the honey pot with the tongue if you desire to get the bell in her head
ringing.
- FOCUS ON HER BOOBS
However
good your sex game is the moment you forget to stimulate your woman’s
breasts and nipples, you stand to lose out on the core of things. Take
your time to work her body, let your hands and tongue be active as
crazy. Even when you get under and penetrate, still maintain contact
with the lofty pair of boobs; cup them, squeeze mildly and tickle the
nipples and be sure to get her to a faster, bigger orgasm.
- TALK DIRTY RAW & DIRTY WITH HER
I
doubt this requires any explanations for all the grown folks out there.
If in doubt, take a few shots of your favorite liquor and let things
take a natural order…
- FIND AND TICKLE HER G-SPOT
Doggy
style is your best bet to hitting her G-spot. But then again there’s a
new approach to this: Get her to lower herself on her elbows instead of
her palms, then thrust in with gentle strokes initially; and then work
it into a faster, rhythmic penetration. As you get into her like this,
you are certain to hit and stimulate the G-spot.
- GENTLY BITE HER EAR AND NECK
Her
ears and the neck regions beneath them can be super sensitive, so if
you know how to nibble on these parts you are sure to get her extra in
the zone, and on your way to a great orgasm.
- TAKE THE LEAD
Many
men don’t understand that the phrase ‘ladies first’ doesn’t apply in
all aspects of life, especially in between the sheets. This is Africa,
how do you expect a lady to make the first move when as a society we
have all the many stereotypes within us? Not gonna happen! You don’t
want the impression that your woman is a whore, neither does she want to
come off as one; so the simple thing is get in the driver’s seat and
steer the vessel. Easy as ABC!
Women like to be pampered,
forget all that feminism talk you hear on twitter but they really intend
for their men to take ABSOLUTE control of things, especially in bed.
So, initiate the idea; make the first moves, put your mouth here and
there, take her hands and slide them in and out of places, unbutton
this, unzip that and boom! You already know.
- TEASE HER BEFORE THE REAL DEAL
It
is often said that the anticipation of something is better than
actually getting it. Think of when you were saving for your first car,
your first gold necklace, your first trip abroad and all that stuff. Do
you remember how it felt as you neared your target? Do you remember how
it made you sleepless during the night till you finally achieved it and
it didn’t mean so much anymore? Exactly. That’s how sex also feels. In
truth, chances are many guys will never be able to get their ladies into
great, multiple orgasms. But then again the feeling of getting her mind
build into pleasurable fantasies can be really great for you and could
serve as a catalyst for great sex.
- BE PRESENT & EXPLORE POSITIONS
Don’t
just take off her clothes and do the pedestrian stuff every other day.
Nah. In popular Twitter parlance, not every time do missionary,
sometimes have quickie in the kitchen or in the car with seat reclined,
AC and windows up. Banging!
- READ THIS ALL OVER AGAIN
Now,
go out there and have an amazeball ‘sexperience’. Also, if you know
anything we have omitted here, feel free to drop us a comment or two.
Enjoy!
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